Sunday, July 02, 2006
Fairy Tale...Fairly Told
A young girl married to a man she loves….fairy tales usually ended like that and one happily supposed that it would be roses and roses all the way….but now it begind with…A young girl married to a man whom she wanted to get married to without any parental oppositions or any villain in the whole story….but wait ! the story starts now.Married and away in a big city with no support system…only a mobile phone to keep in touch and learn how to make a dal and roti….run a house and specially make sure its all clean and orderly, the clothes are ironed, the groceries are fresh and the sugar and salt are right .Lonely days follow and many a time lonely nights coz the husband is working late….which is usually the case in mnc’s…and she looks around for things to do…so she takes up working from home and all the while she is on the laptop she escapes to a world different. Then job offers come along and she has these millions of fantastic ideas swirling in her head…but who is going to hear her. and then the gods smile on her and she gets a call for something she has been really wanting to do…but the timing is wrong. She id just going to get possession of her new house and they want her to be away on location for four months…now what ?A real dilemma. But no one can help her with this…she has to be solely responsible for the decision she is going to take.On one side is an opportunity which might never come again…and on the otherside is a commitment to the man she loves and promised to always be there for him. Why does it have to be this way , she is probably asking herself a thousand times a day. She tosses and turns at night as the day of reckoning comes nearer…..what should she do?This scenario is happening to most of the educated girls of today…they have good jobs or their own work for which they have worked hard and to give it all up is gut wrenching….and for what most of them ask themselves?....just to pamper the males ego ? and just becoz they have got married ? But then again…sometimes it is better to let things slip through your fingers….human relations are fragile and if you do have true love it is important to hold on to it and nurture it. The glitter of gold is just glitter….and diomands on fingers are just stones….its the love the understanding the sacrifices which bond a couple and make them one.In her grey hair years ,she will probably look back on this decision and see that it was the turning point either way.So the story goes on…..it never ends, you see ….chapters keep being added and new emotions surface, new relations come into play ,new desires take hold of the soul….nothing eveer ends happily ever after….only fairy tales
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